“If I knew I’d live this long, I would have taken better care of myself.” — Mickey Mantle
Well, another baby boomer turned 66 — yours truly. On today I am officially an old cheese-cutter. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, I’m one of nearly 400 baby boomers [those born between 1946 – 1964] that turn sixty-six every hour. There are about 75 million boomers in the U.S.; we currently represent about 29% of the U.S. population.
However, I’m not the only boomer hitting the big sixty-six. This past year saw people like my favorite president, George W. Bush, alone with Dolly Parton, Donald Trump, Diane Keaton, Suzanne Somers [Suzanne Somers?! No way! Not Chrissie!], Reggie Jackson, Cher, Richard Dreyfuss, Emmylou Harris, Stephen King , Kevin Kline, Cheryl Tiegs, Jimmy Buffett, Rocky himself—Sylvester Stallone and little ol’ me, are turning that corner in life’s road. I guess us sixty-ish type folks can all be encouraged when we hear that 60 is now the new 40. [Or is the other way around?]
They say that three things happen when you get to be as old as me. The first is you memory starts to fail you, and … ah… ah…Well I forget the other two.
What do I think about turning sixty-six, you may ask? Well since you asked I’ll tell you. I don’t feel any differently than I did last August 25th— or do I? It’s hard to tell. I’ve never been this old before. I suppose a better question is, “What have I learned in the past sixty-six years?”
One of the great paradoxes of getting older is this; the more I learn, the less I know. You see, getting order does not necessarily mean that one gets wiser. One sign that you are getting wiser is that you immediately grasp the meaning when I say, “The more I learn, the less I know”.
What have I learned? Let me hit some high points.
I’ve learned that real love has legs on it. The sad truth is that not everyone who says they love you actually does. There’s a big difference between saying you love someone and showing them, everyday, in every way, through thick and thin that you do love them.
“A friend loves at all times…” (Proverbs 17:17a)
I’ve learned that kindness seems to be a rare commodity these days. Yet, it’s one of the main characteristics of a true Christian. You would be surprised how one simple act of kindness, that cost you little to nothing, impacts others. A birthday card, a simple complement on a job they’re doing, to a “How are you?” and mean it sincerely. It’s astonishing how many people there are who need only a kind word from someone. To many it would make their day.
“ Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
I’ve learned that treating people with respect and gentleness costs you nothing but gains much. A joke for a waiter or waitress along with a healthy tip expresses more of the kindness and love of Jesus than a Christian tract and no tip.
“He who loves a pure heart and whose speech is gracious will have the king for his friend.” (Proverbs 22:11)
I’ve learned that true friends are a precious gift from God and should be greatly treasured. We should not let a day go by without expressing our love and appreciation to them.
“I thank my God every time I remember you.” (Philippians 1:3)
I’ve learned that I should heed the rebuke of a true friend because a true friend has no hidden agenda. He loves me, prays for me, and wants what best for me.
“Wounds from a friend can be trusted…” (Proverbs 27:6)
I’ve learned early in my life that not everyone likes me. In fact, some people actually hate me. I know that’s hard to swallow considering how loveable I am but true nonetheless. This is especially true for followers of Christ. We’re not part of this world’s sin-sick system. Therefore, many hate us because we love Jesus. However, the flip-side of the coin is that there are many who love us because we love Jesus.
“All men will hate you because of me.” — Jesus (Luke 21:17)
“Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.” — Jesus (Matthew 5:11-12)
I’ve learned that people, even Christians, are fallible and I should be patient with them, and hope that they will be patient with me.
And we urge you, brothers, warn those who are idle, encourage the timid, help the weak, be patient with everyone. (1Thessalonians 5:14)
I’ve learned that God is not religious; that Jesus did not come to this planet to start a new religion, like we don’t have enough. According to Wiki there are thousands, perhaps millions of religions in the world. It would be impossible to count them all. No, God is not religious. He’s relational! Jesus came to break the bonds of dead, stale religion and sin’s ternary in order to open the door for us to approach God directly. Consequently anyone can have a personal relationship with God.
“You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.” — Jesus (John 15:14-15)
I’ve learned that life is less stressful when you discover how to make adjustments. To say that life is not fair is a gross understatement. You don’t always get what you want and things don’t always go the way you want. So, you learn to pray for wisdom in order to tell the deference between the different kinds of potholes on life’s highway. Ask God which potholes can you personally fill and what are the ones that only he can fill. In addition, ask him to help you learn to accept the fact that some potholes will never be filled. That’s just life.
One of the most important lesions I’ve learned in my over 50 years of walking with God is this. God has no plan “B”. Where we are concerned the Sovereign Lord doesn’t need another plan to fall back on. When life sucker punchers me, and it has many times, God doesn’t pace back and forth in front of his Throne, wringing his hands, wondering what to do about us. God’s not surprised by anything. In fact, nothing happens in my life until it first filtered through the permissive will of God. Therefore, even the terribly painful things that have happen to me were commandeered by my loving Lord and used toward my best interest.
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28)
Finally, I’ve learned that laughter is the best medicine for stress and that the joy of the Lord will often express itself in hilarity. I learned this lesson many years ago when I was facing one of those times of great turmoil in my life. My heart was breaking and confusion was abounding. So to fight off the despair I was facing, I put on some powerful praise music, began to sing alone, and soon I started to burst forth in unabated praise— singing loudly and dancing before the Lord. Soon, I found myself laughing so hard that I was rolling on the floor. Did my situation change after I did that? No, but I was chancing. My spirit was being strengthened to the point that I could better deal with the my situation.
You have made known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand. (Psalm 16:11)
 Taken from Baby Boomer Headquarters at http://www.bbhq.com/whatsabm.htm. Retrieved on August 20, 2012